Aug 26 2009
Reflecting…on Weddings and such
We’ve received an unusual number of wedding invitations this summer, far more than normal. But I guess it’s just the cycle. 25 years ago (in October) we got married, and though we were a bit older than most to be newly married, we shared those years of baby showers, birthing stories and years of birthday parties with all of our friends — gazillions of birthday parties. They soon turned into graduation parties that seem to have lasted for years. And now — weddings. And though I am so happy for each and every couple we have, or will, celebrate with this summer, it saddens my heart and brings a tear to my eye. Where HAVE those years gone? We were once the brides and grooms, the young parents, the ones running PTA and bake sales and coaching Little League, encouraging our youngsters to read those 100 books for the year-end T-shirt, and on, and on, and on. And now we’re going to weddings, to their weddings — our neighbor girl, our best friends sons, nieces and nephews. The cycle has come full circle, and now we can sit back and watch it start all over again, praying to God that he’ll Bless this generation as much as he has ours. And my tears turn to a smile — because that’s just the way it is –
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And now, with a dry eye, let’s take a look at the formal wedding card I made for this weekend’s wedding, along with a photo tutorial for my fun and flirty bow. Here’s the card:
As expected, a simple card — black and white, Cuttlebug embossing, single initial monogram for the newlyweds and my fun and flirty black silk ribbon treatment. I’ve received a lot of emails asking how I do this. I have explained it previously, but never with photos, so this time I’ll try adding photos and see if that helps. It’s really so easy:
These are the pieces I start with: a black top fold card, my white panel and my monogram.
Photo 1 - Using a good heavy double sided tape, adhere the ribbon on the card front so it will be UNDER the monogram.
Photo 2 - Run the ribbon up the card front and secure on card back with the same type of tape.
Photo 1 - Going back to the card front, adhere your monogram using SU Dimensionals
Photo 2 - Using a 1/4″ width of matching silk ribbon, run it UNDER the wide ribbon, as shown.
Photo 1 - It’s hard to see as the ribbon is so black, but I just drew the ribbon tails up and tied into a tight knot, then cutting my ends short and turning that ribbon so the tails end up UNDER the wide ribbon. It helps to use tweezers to do this.
Photo 2 — Make a bow on the Bow Easy
Note: If you are good at bow tying - you can skip the narrow ribbon and the Bow Easy — just run another length of wide silk under the wide silk strip attached to the card, draw up your tails and tie your bow.
And here’s another look at the final result. My bow is glued on with Aleene’s Fast Grab Tacky Glue (very cheap/Wal-Mart). I added clear rhinestones to the Damask monogram image. A quick and simple card with a bit of a formal look!
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The following items to make this card are available in the Stamp Simply Ribbon Store:
Damask Monogram Kit with Special Occasions Font from the Special Occasions Monogram Kit, OR Special Occasions Kit with the Damask 1-Letter Borders, all by JustRite
Black Silk Ribbon in 1.25″ and 1/4″ widths by May Arts with the Bow Easy
Petite Circle Nestabilities by Spellbinders
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Thanks much for checking in again today — I do so appreciate it! Wishing you all a wonderful week — we certainly do have the feel of autumn in the air already — ready or not — it is ALMOST here!!! See you soon!!!





















